A Story From My Friend

This is a true story of a young college girl who passed away last month, at Shah Alam. Her name is Priya; she was hit by a lorry.

I don't want to mention the name of the college. She had a boyfriend names Shankar. He lives in Johore. Both of them are true lovers. They are always on the phone with each other. You can never see her without her handphone.

She spends ¾ of the day talking with Shankar. Priya's family knows about their relationship. Shankar is very close with Priya's family (just imagine their love). Before she passed away she always told her friends "If I pass away please burn me with my handphone". She also said the same thing to her parents.

After her death, people couldn't carry her coffin. I was there ~ a lot of them tried to do so but still couldn't , everybody including me, had tried to carry the coffin, the result was still the same.

Eventually, they called their neighbour, a "bomoh" from Thailand (pak Darin), who is a friend of her father's. He took a seat and started speaking to himself slowly. After a few minutes, he said "this girl misses something here". Then her friends told Darin bout her intentions to burn her with her phone. He then opened the coffin and place her phone, together with the SIM card inside the casket. After that they tried to carry the coffin. It could now be moved and they carried it into the van easily. All of us were shocked. (can you feel the fear? I'm shaking at this moment.)

Priya's parents didn't inform Shankar that Priya had passed away (pity Shankar). After 2 weeks Shankar called Priya's mom.

Shankar: "Atte, I'm coming home today. Please cook something nice for me. Don't tell Priya that I'm coming home today; I want to surprise her."

Her mother replied, "You come home first, I want to tell you something very important."

After he arrived at Shah Alam, they told him the truth about Priya.

Shankar thought that they were fooling around. He was laughing and said, "Don't try to fool me ... tell Priya to come out ... I have a gift for her. Please stop this nonsense."

Then they show him the Priya's death certificate; they gave him proof to make him believe.

Shankar started to sweat profusely. He said, "It's not true. We spoke yesterday. She still calls me."

Shankar was shaking so badly when suddenly, his phone rang.

"See this is from Priya. See this ...." he showed the phone to Priya's family. All of them told him to answer. He used the loudspeaker mode. All of them heard this conversation, loud and clear. No cross lines, no humming. It was Priya's voice! And there was no way others could use her SIM card as it was nailed inside the coffin! They were so shocked and asked for pak Darin's help.

Pak Darin brought his master (Tok Chen) to solve this matter. He and pak Darin worked for 5 hours ... then they discovered one thing .....
















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想太多记

最近多了很多机会和刚活跃的男子部合作。前辈们叫我帮忙包容他们。开始时觉得有点“不是吧？”的感觉，可是后来想了想，以因果论来说，现在我替别人“培育”她们的男朋友，那么同时也有人在培育着我未来的另一半吧？呵呵…那可好。我可以“省下”很多功夫。=p
现在的我极度愿意替男子部分忧。还有谁家的孩子需要培育？尽管放马过来吧！=p

当下的爱情

看到很多例子，当下的青年（讲到自己好像很老那样）都有着很“梦幻”的爱情观。他们想像爱情是唯美的，应该没有烦恼的，所以当“爱情”来了就一头钻进爱情里面，结果还是搞得自己满身伤痕累累。看了，有点心痛。在美女主播林佩盈（需要这么“完整”的Title吗？好奇怪的自己）的部落格里发现了这么一句话：“爱情里，大家都是独立体，各自付出，双方幸福。就算痛，也一起分担。”很欣赏那句“爱情里，大家都是独立体”。即使相爱，即使彼此决定要在一起，各自的发展还是必要的吧？我们耕耘各自的心田，让自己更成熟、更成长。与“独自修行” *词穷-ing*不同的是，我们在建立更稳固的自我的同时，我们都为共同的未来努力着。我想，比起“唯美”性质的爱情，这样的爱情更来得耀眼吧！至少我是这样的认为。

造势活动！

今天到金河广场为扎根50载文化大汇演的推介礼作出演出（只是当个小小绿叶而已啦）。本来以为“高大威猛”的我可以躲到后面不显眼的地方“对嘴”的，可是后来很不幸的被分派到“最前线”，还要站在一众嘉宾面前…OMG！战战兢兢地完成了演出以后，我和欣霓“如常”地作出一些“疯狂”事件－－找司仪拍照！嘿嘿！为什么要找司仪拍照？因为大会司仪就是大名鼎鼎的胡渐彪及蒋佩佩！真是男的帅女的高贵又有气质！他们还蛮友善的呢！呵呵！

我是…

昨天开初中部会，因为担心我没有人载我到会场，一位姓朱的男子部（他在我转去UPM后才开始参与我们，所以和我不熟）打来问我需不需要载我。然后，或许他还不是很懂华语吧！他的自我介绍还蛮搞笑的…

我：Hello！
朱：你好，我是猪（朱）…
我：（吓到，楞了一下，然后笑答）ok…
朱：呃…我是Yee Ming，我现在在你家门口，你需要我们载你去开会吗？

哈哈…我也不想这么失礼当场笑的，只是…他实在太可爱了！竟然自称“猪”（朱）。哈哈！这就是为什么我这么爱华语！

这学期最后一份Assignment

这学期的最后一份Assignment是Oral Interaction Skill 的 Interview。我们必须从报章上找一份适合的工作，然后上网找资料，“打探”该公司的背景，再拟出一份Interview的报告出来。就因为这样，我开始翻阅工作的版位，不看还好，一看就觉得“OMG”！现在的市场竟大多要求Business Admin, Human Resource, Engineering, Mass Comm, Accounting, MAnagement等相关的文凭。再看看自己选择的科目，语文科…嗯…好像…好像没什么市场咧…*冒汗中*
不行！以后去德国，得找些“吃香”的科目来修读才可以！不过，如果三年后市场忽然急需语文专才那当然是最好啦！哈哈！*发梦中*

破

昨晚唱题时想起一节御书：“ 阳光破大暗。女人之心如大暗，法华经如太阳。”再想起一句指导：“很多女性为宿命哭泣，但是克服宿命的女性，犹如太阳般光辉灿烂。”
就这样，心中的希望再度展现。无论是我还是她，虽然我们心底感到黑暗，可是，通过唱题，通过南无妙法莲华经的力量，一切晦暗将被法华经的“光”给划破。然后，我感谢御本尊给我这么大的福运，去挑战，去“制造”一个这么大的体验。虽然，当面对现实世界时会很难过（因为现实不如想像中容易解决问题），但，我感觉到唱题后的确有所不同。感谢御本尊的守护，我会继续努力祈求，然后挑战过来的。=)

阳光破大暗。女人之心如大暗，法华经如太阳。

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告诉我，我不孤单…

当心情跌到谷地的时候，真的希望能把自己隐藏起来。但是这样不能解决问题的吧，对吗？多希望这时有人能陪我走过去，多希望这事情从未发生过。但，终究我还是必须面对。唯有努力说服自己，它一点也不沉重，它会被我打败的…

扰

今天心情不太好。或许是因为某些事吧！一直以为自己已经很坚强了，可是一旦遇到这个问题还是会被打败。我在想，这会不会也是我一直以来这么缺乏安全感的原因呢？无论如何，我还是必须坚强起来。没什么问题是跨越不了的。尽管这事有点复杂与棘手，但是，我相信通过信心我们能跨越过来的。希望在事情变得更严重以前，我们能及时改变整个状况吧！我们一起努力吧！